Many couples opt to have a Wedding Planner to assist them with their wedding, many however do not. Here are a couple things to consider when making your decision.
First of all there is budget. Are you looking for someone to assist in finding the venue, dj, flowers, invitations, caterers etc or are you interested in someone just for the week before to help with last minute details, or just for the day of the ceremony? Ask friends who they have used as a Wedding Planner and get the scoop. Make sure your planner has had Professional Training and check our their references as well as meeting if time permits with a couple planners.
It is important that should you choose to enlist the services of a Wedding Planner that you feel comfortable with them. Not only being open and agreeable to their suggestions but comfortable enough to veto any options that you would not like included. The bottom line is that it is your day and planner or not, it should still flow that way.
Even if you only have the planner for the day of the wedding, it is important to go over your list of things you would like help with and when you would like these tasks done. A good wedding planner should have a binder with great resources at their finger tips and be willing to share them with you once you enlist their services. After you have this meeting with the planner they should give you a contract to sign. This contract should spell out the details of their services as well as the total cost, deposit etc.
Your planner should be available within reason to assist with emergencies, changes or new ideas (via email, FaceTime of Phone. It might be a nice courtesy to include a tip that covers their professional services for those extras, or for good service.
Each year I have the pleasure of Officiating at over 20 weddings. I have seen first hand the benefits of hiring a professional Wedding Planner. They have made my contribution to the day easier as I am sure for the Photographer, DJ, Caterers and Florist.
My Daughter Karen was very organized for her wedding and had most things taken care of. She did hire a Wedding Planner to assist her on the day of the wedding and let me tell you; “Did he ever make a positive difference and took a load off” Among other things, the planner met with the venue to make sure the tables were positioned properly. He decorated the tables with centerpieces/sparkles etc. He set up the guest book table (bringing along his own personal touches like extra flowers in Karen’s colours) He also met with the florist when they arrived and delivered them as well as the meeting with the Caterer. He stayed during the evening, making sure the Gift Envelopes and Gifts were safely stored away, helped set up for the Evening Buffet and then gathered up and packaged the center pieces, easels etc. His services that day were invaluable. Things flowed so nicely and as the family of the bride we knew that Karen and Tyler needn’t worry about any thing other than each other. What a great contribution.